As I mentioned in a comment here they still don't have an answer for me.
They just don't get what this kind of stress does to someone. I can't even eat or concentrate on my job properly and whenever I think about it I honestly feel like I am going to cry - THIS IS STUPID!! Oh and PMS probably isn't helping either.
I know that there are going to be a lot of stressful times during the build, but if the bank doesn't say yes then there is no build - FFS just hurry up